Let See How To Woo a Girl

Have you ever wanted to woo a girl, and make her sigh dreamily when she thinks about you? Here are some great ways to impress her...
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1. Show interest and show her that you would like to get to know her and you were happy to meet her or talk to her.
2. Always look into her eyes when speaking to her. That subtly will make her see that you are really taking an interest. Just be careful not to get lost in her eyes when she's talking, otherwise the only thing you'll have to respond with is "Wow, you've got pretty eyes." (see the first point).
3. Be sensitive and caring. Let her cry on your shoulder if she's sad. Make her smile when she's feeling crummy. However remember that she wants a man in her life so don't be supplicating.
4. Lead. She wants to be the wooed and not do the wooing so be the first to initiate touch (non-sexual and sexual). Be the one that comes in for the kiss. NEVER ask for ideas for what to do on the date, make plans and a back-up. If she knows of something better she will tell you.
5. Whisper in her ear. girls love this.
6. If you have little siblings, nieces, or nephews, show her that you really care for them. Play with them, watch over and protect them, show the girl that they look up to you.
7. For Valentine's Day (if you celebrate it) be sweet or thoughtful instead of showy and clichéd. A dozen red roses may be the traditional romantic gift, but most girls will be better pleased with a few of their favourite flowers tied with a red, pink, or white ribbon. Actually remembering a girl's favourites will endear you to her more than any elaborate scheme. If it's early in the relationship, though, and you don't know her favourites yet, a teddy bear (or other stuffed animal) is a perfectly fine fallback gift. Do something original to you.
8. Pick up lines are OK as long as they aren't obnoxious (meaning avoid the vast majority) or overtly sexual to someone you don't know.
9. Make her laugh. Girls love guys with a great sense of humour. That doesn't mean you should never take anything seriously, or else you'll come off as a clown.
10. Learn to dance and learn dance etiquette. Take some ballroom classes to build your confidence, so you learn to lead a girl through a song. Girls love guys that can dance.
11. INITIATIVE It's all about taking the first step, if you're going to take her in your arms and sweep her off her feet on the first date, you're about as oblivious as a fish. Girls like the fact that they're being wooed so it doesn't help if you're that 'what's his face' at the corner thinking if you should make a move. Those dreamy eye to eye across the room crap belong in movies. If you're going to ever win the prize, you've got to tell the prize you want it.
12. Break the Ice - one of most seemingly dicey things to do. once you have done this, holding a conversation and laughing will be easy, and you will begin to share a good rapport. a good laugh is always a smart way to break the ice. for eg - you would show this webpage to her, and have a laugh over what is written and the whole idea of having such a page as well.
13. Learn To Be Spontaneous - Taking an improv acting class can help with ideas for breaking the ice, and can help you be confident with talking to new people. Ideas flow, and it becomes easier to enter into and disengage from conversation, and can help you be more comfortable with any situation.
14. "Get close with the girl's family"- knowing that she has her families aproval makes her more comfortable and knowing that you are a likable person is another plus.


Tips

* Remember that all girls are different, and there's no one way to make any girl fall for you. For alternative takes on making a girl get butterflies in her stomach.
* Sometimes just smile at a girl, you're bound to get a giggle.
* Don't stalk girls. They will start to avoid you. However, you can try to talk to them more, through phone, IM, email, whatever.
* Look at yourself in the mirror. If you've got an odd hair style or own something embarrassing which will make you look stupid, change it. Most girls don't mind appearance but nearly all will have first impressions. Make them for the best. Don't look like everyone else though, you want to stand out. In fact, from personal experience, a bad hair day can be exactly what you need.
* Girls don't like nasty breath. Eat mints regularly and brush teeth often.
* Don't just act natural - be natural. If your girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not.
* Nothing is sexier than confidence. However, nothing is as unattractive as arrogance, or more annoying than a needy lack of self-esteem. Try with everything you have to find the drawing medium which is confidence.
* Shower often, and not just with water. Actually use soap, and scrub really hard if you have failed to do this step before.
* Fashion isn't just for girls... it's for guys to be recognized by girls. Get a nice pair of shoes. A pair of cool jeans will also look cool when bought from a fashionable teen store. Same goes for shirts. Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a week.
* Calling her pretty or beautiful is more appreciated than hot or sexy, in fact, try to avoid the latter as much as possible.
* Get in shape.
* Ask her how she's doing and try to notice her moods. If she's sad, comfort her. If she is mad, ask her "what's wrong?" If she does not want to talk about it, don't press.
* Don't be awkward or geeky when asking her out. Think of your own ways and do not try to act cool.
* Treat her with respect, and don't say rude things about her behind her back.
* Never let her pay for a date UNLESS she absolutely insists.
* Try to be subtle when getting to know her, if she considers you a "friend" it may make her less willing to date you.
* Make sure that you are not mean to her, ever. They simply do not accept that.
* But at times reverse and remember that when a girl doesnt say anything thousands of thoughts are going through her head at that moment. . . maybe about you!
* Compliment her in a non-stalker way. eg. if she's wearing an interesting necklace, say "that's an interesting necklace" or "that's a cool necklace" NOT "I always like your necklaces *scary grin*".
* If you think something's wrong, ask her. Remember what she says, and is saying. Girl's memories are generally better than guys, and a lot of them will get offended if you forget something they've said.
* Cute teasing is okay. Something like "well you always look pretty" etc etc, in a messing-around voice is fine. Going over the top, and constantly putting her down will just make her angry and she'll probably tell her friends. This will result in general angry, vengeful people. This is not exactly what we're aiming for.
* Shower constantly and never emit any odors of any kind! Girls have very keen little noses and they can smell everything.

Warnings

* Do this for every girl you are in a relationship with. If word gets out that you were a jerk to your last girlfriend, no one will want to date you.
* Watch yourself. You can't always act the same around girls as you do around your male friends, especially at first.
* If a girl is known to spread rumors about exes, be extra careful and consider whether this is really the girl for you.
* Don't put on strong cologne. Girls hate the smell and avoid it as long as possible. Light cologne or the fresh shower smell is nice.
* Don't ever force any girl to do something she doesn't want to do.
* Don't discuss any intimate details about your girl with your friends, it will get out.
* Impress her show her you're a real gentleman and don't ever kiss on the first date unless she is ready to.
* When you are ready for the first kiss and the mood is right, lean towards her slowly, but don't shove your face into hers. If she doesn't back away, gently lean the rest of the way in for the kiss. Some tips say go halfway there, or 80 or 90 percent. Go with what feels natural for the moment. Going all the way can work, but it depends on the girl. Bottom line, lead the kiss, but let her come to you.

OMG!!!! look like u got a lot of secret keeping in u...

Good... share with us 1 by 1...

is time for me to continue improvement...

ken jz know to crap bt not in action.....

now learn skill first... later do practical la..

dude , no practical how to learn leh?
once u try it ...........nyek nyek nyek....u will never turn back

no chick to do practical!

dun play with me no chick to do practical.... there are a lot of chick out there..... just go for it..

cannot find a stranger laa.. this is high level case.. need to choose the subject!

oh.. start with stranger.. wah... then u know all the chicks there???

tak kenal la.. if not... wont end up like this!

oh... ask bird help u since he so popular with gals..

yalar , cincai ask bird pick 1 girl for u to practice lar ........

bird sendiri pun tak cukup makan.. he got a big stomach la.. and good appetite too

steal 1 from him lor? that is more challenging .......
just make sure u won't can already

if i will do that thing.. i will not talk with you until now!

easy just go find 1... not need think so much

i try looking for it since secondary skoll until now also single. boleh buat apa!

go out know more people will help u a lot..

i dont want to know more people..

see....thats your problem.....
try harder next time , 天无绝人之路 ......
if everyone think like you die lor .........

i dont see any path in front of me.. i wonder why i know how to read the chinese word.. must be god sad of me ... that why let me know the word.. haha

so better keep that in mind .....
don't sacrifice 1 tree for whole forest......

imperfection make her beautiful , which that only she could be. how could i forget it , the beautiful scene i ever see.

there is still a lot of beauty scence out there...

lolz... let me meet another 1st then i will tell. haha